To be or not to be married?!?

Happy Happy Saturday ☺💖 

Today was a very chill day for me. Hubby dearest was at home, it is always good to have him around the whole day!

We also saw a movie together after a long time. It was this funny movie where both the male and female protagonists were super afraid to get married. But due to pressure from their respective families they are dragged into marriage and how they end up loving each other. Very typical love story but why I decided to write about it is, these days single people are actually feeling afraid about getting married and settling down seeing the increasing number of divorces in our society. They may fear that life won't be the same any more, there may be limitations to their freedom and way of living life.

I agree that these fears may have some element of truth but I would also like to highlight some pointers as to why married life is super cool.

1. Yes, you may never be able to live life as you used to as a single person because of course you need to consider your life partner's preferences and make some adjustments but in a true partnership even they do the same. It is always a give and take in this relation too, as any other.  

2. Together you are strength. You always have that one person no matter what happens in your life. Your better halves not only help multiply your joys but also divide(sharing helps reduce) your lows, sorrows.

3. This pointer for the practical ones - you have a bigger pool of resources like money, sharing of responsibilities or even day to day chores.

4. Your partner is a potential best friend - You get to have fun together if you share hobbies or expand your fun activities by trying out things that your partner likes. You never know, you may take a strong liking to something which you had never thought of trying earlier. Apart from that, this person always has your back, come what may.

The list can go on but I think you get the gist, I am totally for the institution of marriage. It comes with its cons but the pros far out way them, if you really manage to find your soul mate/better half/life partner!