So picture this guys: Any tiny scrap of
work opportunity comes my way, I go like "Wow, maybe I am meant for this
job!".
When they ask me about myself, I am naive
enough to tell them, I have had a pretty long career break and keen to start
work. I would have thought showing my keenness and sincerity towards the job opportunity
would open up the interviewer's heart and doors of the company. But hey, they
sure can sense desperation. And rather
than being thrilled about an enthusiastic candidate, it so happens that they actually
run far away from me.
This happened multiple times in the recent
times. Then I got it! I have to 'act' cool. I have to play it chill. And not only
'act' the part but actually believe it too!
Reminds me of my single-hood days. All my
friends were getting married or engaged and I was the only one left behind. So you
kind of understand how it can affect your morale. After being rejected or
rejecting multiple prospective alliances (who just didn't seem right), I came to a point where I accepted my single-hood as a reality. The
peace that came with this, became empowering.
I set out to make my life happening by investing in my hobbies and things that made me happy. I learnt dancing, made a
lifelong friend in the process. I was just having an awesome time in life. The
fact that I was single no more bothered me.
And lo and behold, there came my hubby
dearest! Which just happened accidentally.
Fate! It's quite funny. When you make
peace with the fact that, you would not get what you badly want in your life, It
just decides to pop up!
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